UNFAIR!!

I have had four children. I am not very big, but 3 of my 4 babies were. My hips are now wider than they were before I had children. My stomach muscles are pretty much useless now, too. I've been married for almost 15 years and I'm closer to 40 than 30. Do I look like I did in high school? Not even close. But my dear sweet husband. He's a different story. I found a picture of him as a senior in high school the other day. He was in a tank top and flexing his gorgeous biceps and pecs. Here's the problem: HE STILL LOOKS LIKE THAT!! In fact, he looks better now than he did then! How is that fair? True, he did not have to bear four children. But still, the man is in his mid 30's and looks better now than when he was 17? NOT FAIR! His job is mostly sitting for hours on end. He eats ice cream almost daily and drinks almost nothing but soda. He works evenings and eats just before going to bed at night. And yet he has a washboard stomach, ridiculous arms and chest and legs as hard as a brick wall. Unbelievable. I worked out everyday for two weeks and lost nothing. He works out a couple times a week and loses weight while gaining muscle. I eat treats with him at night before we go to bed and I gain 8 pounds. I run around all day after these children, and do laundry and weed pulling and dishes and vacuuming and dusting and kitchen cleaning and bath room cleaning and have a disgusting muffin top that is getting worse. I love my hubby. I find him extremely sexy. I just wish I could feel the same way about myself. My baby is 4 now and I'm still struggling to lose my baby weight. My husband is in the best shape of his life. Can't we be fat together???